A couple of queries have come up about the challenge that I thought I'd clarify.
- Although I don't talk about doing 'it' in every days update, the chillis indicate how hot the event that day was. So if there are chillis on an update then we met the target for the day. The X means its a big zero in the love shack that day.
- What happens when you have your period? Well, I have a Mirena, which means I don't get a period (yay for me!)
I understand that it's just the way of things particularly this week but you’ll have noticed that this hasn’t changed my approach. I’m still coming home to help with the kids and still staying up later to be with you (and give us a chance if one presents itself). That in itself is actually reflective of the good that has come out of the challenge for me, that I want to be where you are.
So it's all good in the hood and we are full steam ahead.
X Oops it's another late one burning the midnight oil and another miss for us. I am getting the kids cold and we agree to take a pass.
XGroundhog day. A replay of Day 18 except this time Mr Belly Beyond isn't quite so understanding. He doesn't say anything of course but I can feel that he is worried the wheels are well and truely falling off.
So what does Jane Public think of this idea?
I did a status update this week on our Facebook page this week.
"Relationship Challenge: sex every day for 30 days. Have you? could you? would you?"
It was surprising in that there was little middle ground. The majority response was "absolutely no way" and "before kids yes, but now too tired" but there were a few responses along the lines of "are you kidding? this is us normally".
Of the Dads that answered, they were super keen to do something like this - funny that.